Domestic Reasons: Essay Ideas on Bullying

Don’t Bully

Consider in your essay the most common “family” causes of bullying. They are noted by authors such as L. Berkowitz, R. Baron and D. Richardson and others.

Rejection of Children

Note in your essay that invasive attacks often occur in unwanted kids. Some parents are not prepared for the appearance of their child. But, they still give birth to kids, because of the impossibility of abortion for medical reasons. Although parents cannot tell him/her directly that he/she is not expected and wanted, he/she feels it, because they “read” information from the gestures and intonation of their parents. Such kids are trying, by all means, to prove that they have a right to exist, that they are good. They are trying to win so much-needed parental love and, as a rule, do it aggressively.

Disrespect to a Child

Point in an essay that invasive reactions can be caused by incorrect and tactless criticism, insulting and demeaning remarks by adults. All that is able to awake not only anger but also frank rage. Disrespect for the child’s personality, public disparaging remarks about him/her rise deep and serious complexes, cause self-doubt and uncertainty in the life of kids.

Prohibition on Physical Activity

If the child was not able to openly show his/her positive and negative emotions during the whole day, could not physically blow off steam, his/her bellicosity would be caused by accumulated excess energy. In its turn, it has no possibility to disappear without leaving a trace.

Discontent of Yourself

Often it is not caused by objective reasons, but a lack of emotional encouragement from the parents, which leads to the fact that kids do not learn how to love themselves. For a child (and adult), it is vital that he/she is loved not for something, but just as he/she is (unmotivated). The most severe punishment does not cause irreparable harm to the child as it leads to lack of self-love and encouragement. If the child does not love himself/herself, considers himself/herself unworthy of love, so he/she will not love others. In this case, an invasive attitude towards the world from his/her part is quite logical.

Influence of Foodstuffs

Food

Indicate in an essay that the aggressiveness of the child can be caused by nutrition. The relationship between increasing of anxiety, nervousness and aggressiveness and consumption of chocolate is proved. Studies are conducted abroad, examining the relationship between the consumption of potato chips, hamburgers, sweet soda and increasing of aggressiveness. Designate in an essay that numerous studies have shown the influence of cholesterol in blood on the aggressiveness of the human (including the character of bellicosity). Thus, there is a lower level of cholesterol in the blood observed in the majority of suicides and those who committed suicide attempts. Low cholesterol level leads to passive aggressiveness.

Other Influences

You can talk in an essay about the impact of noise, vibrations, tightness, air temperature. Scientists have proved that the majority of the “hot” conflicts arise in the heat. This is not surprising because the heat is a stress for our body. That is why we are especially irritable and tense in the heat. Tightness is another powerful provocateur of our aggressiveness. Almost everybody was an eyewitness and even a partaker of unpleasant nasty party quarrels in a crowded bus or subway. Tightness influences the child no less strongly than the adults. It is desirable, therefore, that the child has his own room. If this is not possible, you need to provide him/her with his/her corner in one of the rooms so that he/she will not feel constrained.

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